It never ceases to amaze me how insecure a woman is about her body. She can have the best set of breasts on the face of the earth and she will still be concerned if her ankles are fat. This has always pissed me off. I guess because I don’t understand it. I don’t understand how a woman can be so obsessive about her body. The funny part is, I don’t think most men care. I don’t think most men care if there is stretch marks on her stomach. Most men won’t even look, but women are obsessed. You need to understand the Sexual Insecurity of your woman and try to help her. It will eat her alive if you tell her that her that her nose makes her look like Porky the Pig. If you love your woman, then you want to have the most stable relationship possible. If it is unstable, chances are you won’t be getting laid. If you just want to watch a video that summaries this article.
You would think that the sun rises and sets on their ass, thats how insecure women are with it, Most women are insecure about their asses. I’ve never understood this, but like most things with women I have come to terms with it. There are ways that you can help make her feel better about her ass, and this Bedroom Secret is one that you should always follow.
How To Start To Overcome Sexual Insecurity
Ask your lady to lay down and start by massaging her shoulders and back and then make your way down to her ass. While you are doing it, tell her how nice it is. Tell her how aroused it makes you to touch her ass. Usually during this, I will insert a few fingers into her vagina. If she says anything, tell her that you got too horny touching her ass.
Cellulite can be a bad insecurity for some women, most will have it on their thighs,it looks abit like cottage cheese. If she is uncomfortable about this, tell her how much you like to kiss her thighs before you have oral sex. Tell her that you didnt even notice that she has any. Act stupid and pretend like you never seen it. Don’t act too stupid, or she will know that you are lying.
Most women will have a spare tyre around their middle, especially if she has had children. Tell her that she should love her tummy as you love her tummy and how you like to kiss her down there as it makes you as horny as hell. If this don’t work, have her lie down and show her. If she keeps trying to loose weight why not shout her a diet solution.
Turning Off The Lights Is A sure Sign.
Ever have a woman turn out the lights before you have sex? She is probably doing this to prevent you from seeing her body. Tell her that you want to watch her beautiful body as she has an orgasm. Try to emphasize that you want to see her beautiful body. Hopefully this will overcome her Sexual Insecurity and she will meet your wishes.
No person is perfect. We would all wish that our women were perfect little love machines, but they aren’t. Even the women on television aren’t perfect. This is probably why you don’t see most of them totally nude (Wouldn’t That make the weather more interesting). Underneath it all, there is a imperfection some where.
You need to let your woman know that even though she isn’t perfect, no person is. Tell her about what you feel your imperfections are. Point them out to her, go in detail if you have to.
Putting on too big a act, becoming manic and crying and acting depressed will give you away, you need to use common sense, She will see this coming a mile away. Instead, be honest and open about it. Tell her that one leg is bigger than the other or whatever your problem is.
Understanding her Sexual Insecurity
It is important that you understand how your woman views herself. You need to listen to her so that you know what she thinks her faults are. Tell her what you feel are her strong points. Does she have nice breasts? Does she have nice legs? Tell her about it!
When you lady feels more comfortable around you, she will become more active in the bed. The best sex occurs when two people feel comfortable with themselves, this is what happens when you overcome Sexual Insecurity. So that is your incentive to help her become comfortable with herself. If you want to have that earth pounding orgasm that floods the room with semen, then you better make her feel comfortable.
Being comfortable around your partner naked is what we are after, she cant perform if she feels uncomfortable. I think of the issue about making your lover comfortable like this. If you were a painter, would you be able to paint a picture if you were very nervous? Would you be able to paint a straight line if there was a bomb going off next to you? No, you wouldn’t be able to.
Maybe if all else fails, you could suggest trying breathing excesses which you can find on the net. They are a great way to relax and to relieve stress as well. If she doesn’t feel comfortable after all that you have told her and done with her. You could do this together.
Ten Steps to Overcome Sexual Insecurity.
- Sexual insecurity sometimes comes from the way you feel about your body so Walk Around Naked More Often.
- Self-pleasure is normal , Get in Touch with Yourself.
- Some insecurities can be resolved by talking to a health care professional, Make a Doctor’s Appointment.
- Re-prioritize , don’t worry that you take to long to orgasm or that that you don’t last for hours just enjoy the sex.
- Accept That You Like What You Like , let your partner know what you like, dirty Talk for instance, although you might need to rethink this if your obsession is illegal or dangerous.
- If your goal is to be the best at sex Get Your Head Straight.
- Not surprisingly, a lot of people have the same worries about sex so if you Practice, you can overcome your negativity.
- Use Your Mouth, and chat to your partner about your issues.
- Some sexual insecurities require a little outside help to overcome, Talk to a Therapist.
- Sex is fun. That’s why humans have been doing it for centuries, so make sure you enjoy it and Make Sex Fun.
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